Was the first wife aware that you'd fucked a decent percentage of your wedding guests?
I think she'd have been an idiot NOT to think something, but I stayed friends with every girl I boned except for 2. I can't say I'm CLOSE friends or anything, but like FB friends or if I'm traveling we'll go to dinner and whatnot. I guess there are a few now that I've lost touch with, but if I saw them, we'd definitely do the standard "What's up, what have you been up to?" kinda thing.
Only my ex wife and college girlfriend...those are the two that I would never talk to again. The high school girlfriend who I actually was in love with but I cheated on with
everybody because I still was not quite a complete human...I ran into her out one night in my early 20s. she was with her boyfriend. I said to them both, "Listen, man, I need to talk to her for 2 seconds because I was a complete dick and she didn't deserve that. You have a good girl and hopefully you're a better person than me." Then I told her it truly wasn't her, it was me, I was young, stupid, and was working on the old self-esteem thing. I was really sorry and meant it, and told her she's better than I treated her.
I up and walked away, my buddy and I left that bar, went somewhere else, and I moved on. I heard from a mutual friend later that she was completely caught off guard by it all, and appreciated it on some weird level.
I'm not a bad guy, I'm just a dick.